Women's Guide to Sugar Daddy Dating, A New Lifestyle Trend?
Many females looking to try Sugar Daddy dating for the first time often asks what they need to do in order to meet a great guy. It is not surprising that some of the members who joined SeekingArrangement.com to try out mutually beneficial relationships for the first time are often overwhelmed or disappointed. However, many of our members have formed successfully Sugar Daddy arrangements, and in this Women’s Guide to Sugar Daddy dating, I hope to share some of their success secrets.
Unlike what most people may think, sugar daddy dating isn’t the sort of relationship between a wealthy guy and a younger girl. To be specific, sugar daddy dating is really an arrangement between two people, where one is wealthy and the other is young and beautiful. Think of “Hugh Hefner” the king of all sugar daddies, and you will immediately understand what sugar daddy dating is all about.
Does it involve Sex and Money?
Many people often write to ask me if money and sex is involved in sugar daddy dating, and my answer is absolutely yes! Now tell me which relationship does not involve either money or sex? The traditional marriage involves both money and sex, and thus sugar daddy dating is no different. Except that in this case, it starts off as an arrangement – that is, an understanding between the two people involved that there are no commitments or expectations.
What is an Arrangement?
So what exactly is a sugar daddy arrangement? There are many types. In Hugh Hefner’s case, he dates many of his playgirls, and in return, they get an allowance, a boost in their career and even a room of their own in his Playboy mansion. Hugh Hefner becomes a benefactor and a lover. But there are many types of sugar daddy arrangements, for example, a married man looking for a mistress, an executive looking for a sexy “personal assistant”, a retired millionaire who wants a beautiful travel companion, a Hollywood producer who is looking to mentor a gorgeous aspiring actress, or a busy guy with at extra room in his home looking to sponsor a struggling college student with a rent-free arrangement.
Women’s Guide to Sugar Daddy Dating
Finding the arrangement that is right for you is a complex process, as many of the members on SeekingArrangement.com will tell you. As such, I have complied a list of “best practices” or a step by step guide used by some of the more successful sugar babies.
Step 1: Keep an open-mind. You must be open-minded to participate in sugar daddy dating. You will be certain to encounter all kinds of sugar daddies. You may find most sugar daddies are generous, wealthy and respectful, while you will most likely encounter the rude, crude, perverted, pretentious, and abusive types. As with normal dating, you need to keep an open-mind, and understand that just because you meet a bad person does not mean that everyone is bad. There are bad apples everywhere.
Step 2: Know what you want. The best way to screen out the bad apples, or men who are undesirable is to know exactly what you want and what you do not want in a sugar daddy arrangement. Put together a list of the things you look for and the things you will never tolerate. An example of what you may be looking for could include the following: respectful, generous, smart, can afford an allowance of at least $3,000 a month, and must be attractive.
Step 3: Be upfront about the budget. Yes, most people may say that it is superficial to talk about money up front, but when it comes to sugardaddie arrangements, the budget is the key to a happy relationship. By asking the question “what is your budget” upfront, you will be able to immediately separate the men from the boys, the haves from the have not’s. As for men who tell you its superficial to be asking about “budgets” upfront, tell them its superficial to be selecting someone based on “good looks”. Sugar daddy dating is about money and looks.
Step 4: Use your common sense. This is by far the most important rule. No matter what someone may say, do not trust them blindly. Trust must be earned. So if a man tells you he has so much money, don’t just take his words for it. Do your own research. Also, if your sugar daddy decides to help you by giving you an allowance, never accept a check if you don’t know him well. We have heard of horror stories of guys giving girls a check only to turn around to place a “stop order” on the check. These are the “bad apples” we talk about – men who have no business being sugar daddies. So, if you forget about all the other rules, this is the one you always must remember to use your common sense.
For those women who are willing to keep an open mind, sugar daddy dating may just be for you. I personally know of many happy sugar babies who have found successful sugar daddy relationships through SeekingArrangement.com. Beyond the four key steps I outlined above, the most important part of sugar daddy dating is to have fun. When you look at how Hugh Hefner and his playgirls conduct themselves, you will understand that life is short, and life is about trying anything once and having fun while you are at it. So for all those aspiring and future sugar babies out there, I wish all of you the best of luck!